In the west, well, sex, relationships have been so clinically dissected. I fail to see in all of it where the love comes in, and of course, say nothing of karma between two people. DSM says that, menstruation is a problem, and this is making, of course, women inferior because they have this problem that affects them mentally, emotionally, and physically. But, I’m wondering about the problems of impotence, and the need for libido enhancers. Does this not affect the males mentally, emotionally, and of course, physically?
Insurance companies, from what I understand, are willing to pay for libido enhancers for the males but, if it comes to this problem they call menstruation, which is not really a problem, it’s just a fact of life, thank The Goddess. Well, we have for this woman antidepressants, and so forth, because of this natural occurrence in the body. But you see, the only problem with menstruation is not that it exists, that’s part of nature Herself, the problem comes in when the woman menstruate, and her menstruation cycle process is off-balance. She’s not menstruating, or she’s menstruating too much. And yes, this has its physiological reason but, more so it’s karmic, that’s the truth of it. Therefore, psychoneuroimmunologic not just physical.
People write books, and they make a lot of money writing about sex, and the penis, and the clitoris, and relationship, inadequacies, and needs, and desires, and all those things. But, the truth is that they’re highly inaccurate. True knowledge comes about with understanding the nature of things. But, they cannot write about this because the writer themselves does not understand it. They can only write about the consequences of what is occurring due to the karmic binds that the person is in causing them to be this way, or that. Now, if they could write more, and teach about the truth perhaps the people would need less medicine if they could understand their nature. But, these writers are inadequate because they don’t understand it themselves.
The quality of a relationship of sex, of anything really, especially life, is far more important than say, the quantity of time, or in this cases, orgasmic trembles, or in the case of food, how many chicken legs can you eat for the price of one, or how many years you can live a life time, quality is everything, we know that in Yoga.
Did you know sexual instinct is inherent in womb born creatures. Of course, it starts with the ovum and sperm. Sexuality begins at conception. The infant is born with the awareness of sexuality, right. Because, a boy childs penis can become erect. Now, if the ego self identifies with the sex organ, then there is ego awareness in that tiny infant.
When two people are attracted to each other there had to be a relationship in a previous life. No matter what species they were, insect or people, doesn’t matter, animals. If they were sexual together in a previous life they will have the desire to be so again in this life. If they were partners before it may not necessarily be the same kind of relationship this time, you see. If they were partners before, and then in this life they are mother and son, the desires for one another, at a certain level, don’t get too squiggly here, may be the same. However, the relationship is different so these unconscious desires, of course, would be played out differently.
ancestral relationships were (and still today) never spoken of. It was (still is) forbidden to speak of them, not necessarily have them. Now, of course, the taboo of it, the wrongness of it, and the fact that, that wrongness is brought out more, revealed and spoken about has changed things.
Commonly, the male partner is the dominant partner, right. He makes his desire known, and the female responds. Well, she will only respond if there was a relationship between them in a previous life. Now, bear with me here, hopefully you will be able to see the point. If the female in this life initiates the relationship, say a sexual relationship to be specific, you can be sure that she was the male partner in the previous relationship. Even in the actual act of sexual union the act of who is on top, and who is on bottom is determined from previous relationships that they had together.
Karmically speaking, this is all very important to know. Why? You say, “It makes it all too complicated.” But remember, I said to you earlier, imagine if we really understood the nature of things. If the previous life relationship for two people was fulfilling for each person, and they meet again, which they most likely would, they may feel quite satisfied in just being with one another. Yes, the desire for sex may be present but, it will not be the obsessive compulsive quantity type of relationship, you know the orgasmic trembles, you know being like animals, you see. They may even not have any drive to be sexual at all, and this can intensify, even further their relationship.
Quantity sex is physically exhausting, and it makes the mind weak. You become like a rabbit, and you just want ego gratification. So, you may have multiple sex partners, or if two people have more of a mental relationship, the need for tension release for quick orgasmic sex is less. And the partner you’re with, you realize, is the only bond for you. This bond is like no other relationship. You share everything together, and when you are apart the memory of one another is one of beauty, and intensity, so much that you cannot bear to be apart. This is like the memory of the Divine which one is fixated on continuously lifetime after lifetime, and cannot bear even the thought of one moment without the memory. And of course, if one sees the Divine in this partner, then of course, they cannot bear to be apart. This of course, has nothing to do with sex.
I see that people have no time in their lives for sensual togetherness, touching, kissing, which is very important, and caressing, just lying quietly close to one another.
Humanity has regressed to an insensitive, impersonal level in relationships. True love occurs when a relationship has developed over many, many lifetimes of being together.
Did you know that marriage was invented as an institution? Remember, I mentioned male insecurity, the switching of the possessiveness. Married people come to me for counsel a lot. Mostly, because the marriage is dying or dead. They have forgotten their role in this play of Maya. Women have stuffed their emotions, they have forgotten how to be passionate. Males have lost their ability to control their passion, and direct its flow to him. Each of course, blaming the other, they remain in the karmic bind, to be played out again, and again
I say this to you, wake up to nature. Come to understand the nature of yourself, of everything, of life. We’re a part of nature, we’re never apart from it.
Many blessing. Awaken yourself. Don’t fear the truth. Fear not letting go of your ignorance.